What Gestational Surrogacy Really Looks Like: From Matching to Parenthood
Gestational surrogacy is often discussed — but rarely fully understood. For many intended parents, it represents hope, possibility, and a deeply meaningful path to building a family.
Here’s what gestational surrogacy actually involves — and how modern fertility care supports families every step of the way.
What Is Gestational Surrogacy?
Gestational surrogacy is a process in which a surrogate carries a pregnancy created using an embryo that is not genetically related to the surrogate. The embryo is formed through IVF using:
- The intended parent(s)’ egg and sperm, or
- Donor egg and/or donor sperm
This is different from traditional surrogacy, where the surrogate is genetically related to the child. Today, gestational surrogacy is the most commonly used and medically supported option.
The Key Steps of the Gestational Surrogacy Journey
1. Matching
Intended parents are matched with a gestational carrier through an agency based on shared values, preferences, and medical criteria. This stage emphasizes trust, communication, and alignment.
2. Medical Preparation
Once matched, both the intended parent(s) and surrogate undergo medical screening and preparation. This ensures safety, readiness, and the best chance of success.
3. Embryo Transfer
An embryo created through IVF is transferred to the surrogate’s uterus during a carefully timed cycle. This step is guided by advanced reproductive technology and close medical monitoring.
4. Pregnancy and Ongoing Support
Throughout pregnancy, care teams provide coordination, medical oversight, and emotional support for everyone involved — from early milestones to delivery.
Supporting All Families, Including LGBTQ+ Parents
Gestational surrogacy is a trusted and empowering path for:
- Same-sex male couples
- Single parents by choice
- Individuals unable to carry a pregnancy
Aspire Fertility proudly supports LGBTQ+ families with inclusive, affirming, and experienced care — because every family deserves thoughtful guidance and respect.
A Modern, Trusted Path to Parenthood
Gestational surrogacy is not a last resort — it is a well-established, intentional way to build a family. With the right medical partners and support system, it can be a deeply rewarding experience for all involved.
